Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences. I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. What a bozza topic. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her.
I'm not going to break up with her because of her religion, but if we can't come to some kind of understanding about what we'd do with kids After reading every page of that CES letter I am fully aware this religion is a complete fabrication. Hey, thanks for the info. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. I was the bishops' daughter who went to BYU but didn't go on a mission because I was already married with a 10 month old by my 21st birthday. Things have worked out pretty well with us so far. Oh well, at least now I know.
Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with.
I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. Maybe about a year ago. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that all sexual relationships outside of marriage defined as the legal union between a man and a woman are sinful. Apps At Your Fingertips. I know people should not get married if they can't accept each other as they are. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up.