But I got tired of that, and I made it clear to him that I will stay in with him as often as he wants, put him to bed, make food with him or for him, clean, etc. Do you see yourself being with him for many years. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. I pray the holy Spirit will provide guidance to both of us, and that love conquers all.
I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. That's why I was hoping to hear from someone dating or married to a doctor. That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down. But I don't know that he does the same for me. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her. I chose to get married and move across the state to live with my husband and left my job, family and friends and let me tell you, it's been tremendously difficult to meet new friends in the new town. My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. He's currently doing emergency medicine and about to start residency. That was enough for him. I was thinking the same thing when I read this.
It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. However, like the comment posted on March 18th the program only had one or two wives and the ones they do have are busy with their kids. In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear.
We'll discuss further after the holiday and see where we end up. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. He will eventually have more time for you, but right now he is likely giving you all the time that he can, even though it is very little. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice.